This is definitely an area that I’ve been studying lately. As a single stay at home mom, I don’t have backup or reinforcements when my children disobey and don’t respect me or my authority. I can’t just have dad take care of it, you know…it’s gotta be me. I struggle personally between trying to be the sweet and loving mom, while also being the enforcer.
Most of the time I feel I fail. I think that all parents feel like they fail a lot. Really, all we can do is our absolute best in guiding our kids to be the best people they can be, teaching them about Christ and being respectful.
In my extensive research, here are the 15 top articles I came across on how to get your kids to respect you…I hope they will help you, as they are helping me implement some new ideas.
15 Top Articles on How to Get Your Kids to Respect You
Busy Mom’s Guide to Teaching Your Children Manners {Sarah Titus}
Chances are if you are reading this, you are a busy mom. As a single mom myself, I definitely know what it’s like to be running from sun-up to sun-down, and while there are no short cuts to parenting, there ARE some things you can do to make a difference, even when your time is limited.
6 Phrases My Kids Are Not Allowed to Say to Adults {Imperfect Homemaker}
Teaching children what is and is not appropriate to say to their elders is a important lesson that is so often overlooked today!
How to Respond When Your Child is Disrespectful {Imperfect Families}
I like the idea of slowing things down. We are always such in a rush, rush, rush, and that can be hard on a little one. They could be acting out in a negative way and not even fully know why or how to deal with the emotions.
5 Ways I Teach My Kids Respect {Gather for Bread}
Tons of really great ideas to teach children how to respect!
Teaching Kids to Obey With The “Yes Mommy” Game {Meaningful Mama}
The #1 way kids learn is through play, so what better way to teach them respect then through a game?!
Biblical Boyhood: Teaching Boys to Be Respectful {Frugal Fun For Boys}
Love this: “Teach your kids that you do not have authority over them because you are bigger and stronger and smarter, but because God has given you the responsibility to be their parents.” SO very true and definitely a lot to think about.
The Interrupt Rule {House of Hendrix}
Doesn’t it always seem like your kids never need you until you are busy doing something else? This “no interrupt rule” will teach them how to politely get an elder’s attention.
How I am Raising a Son Who Truly Respects Women {Pick Any Two}
This is a very important issue, not only for boys to learn to respect girls, but for girls learn how to respect themselves as well.
3 Good Reasons I Won’t Let Our Children Disrespect Me {Club 31 Women}
It all starts at home, which is why #2 is so true!
Teaching Siblings Courtesy {Creative With Kids}
Anyone with 2 or more kids knows siblings can sometimes argue and disrespect each other. This is a great tip to teach your children to show courtesy and respect to their siblings.
Teaching Toddlers Manners {Embracing Homemaking}
Toddlers are not too young to start learning their manners and to be respectful! Some great pointers here.
Social Responsibility Freebie {Teachers Pay Teachers}
A Free, short lesson plan to help teach children respect.
Teach Your Child Not To Interrupt in One Simple Step {An Everyday Story}
Hmmm, I will have to try this!
How to Handle Disrespectful Students Who Don’t Know They Are Being Disrespectful {Smart Classroom Management}
Although this article is meant for teachers, it is helpful for parents too!
The Art of Teaching Children Kindness and Respect {Dirt & Boogers}
I like the idea of assigning character traits. I tried this the other night with the word “wise” when trying to teach my kids to WANT to be wise and value wisdom…will see if it works. 🙂
How to Teach Your Kids Respect {Tips From A Typical Mom}
The basics of teaching children to be respectful at any age!
Looking for a few good children’s books to read to your kids about respect? Here’s a few I found on Amazon:
The Berenstain Bears Show Some Respect
Respect and Take Care of Things
Treat Me Right: Kids Talk About Respect
My Mouth is a Volcano
The Worst Day of My Life Ever
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Melanie says
February 15 at 7:35 amThanks so much for sharing Sarah! Great line-up.
Sarah Titus says
February 15 at 11:35 pmAbsolutely Melanie! 🙂
Lisa says
February 15 at 1:34 pmThank you so much for sharing my article – and these other terrific articles too! Great topic and timely for our current culture!
Sarah Titus says
February 15 at 11:35 pmAbsolutely Lisa. It’s my pleasure. 🙂
Alison says
February 21 at 12:01 pmThank you for this great list! My husband travels a lot and then works on the family farm, so I find myself trying to walk that fine line between being a loving mom and being the enforcer (and I also feel like I’m failing all.the.time). Parenting is NOT easy!
Sarah Titus says
February 22 at 9:22 amYeah, that’s definitely tough. I’m in the same place as you in that regard. I want to love on them when I have to be the enforcer of rules. Hard when you don’t have help like that. Will pray for you! <3
MaryEllen says
February 27 at 8:24 pmThanks for including my article. I’m looking forward to checking out the others. Respecting authority is something that so few children are taught these days!
Sarah Titus says
February 27 at 11:32 pmDefinitely true MaryEllen. Lots of great articles in there. 🙂